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Psikolojideki Bu 5 Sevgi Diliyle Partnerinizi Mutlu Edin - HAKANSEYHAN
Kimileri sevgilerini hissettirmek için armağan alırken ötekiler sarılırlar, sevdiklerini söylerler. O süre aslına bakarsak sevgi her insana nazaran değişik anlamlara geliyor olabilir.
“Sevgi nedir?” sorusuna yanıt ararken kimileri duygusal bir şairden alıntı yaparken kimileri iç geçirip eskiyi yad eder. Ne kadar güzel bir duygu bulunduğunu vurgulayanlar olduğu şeklinde gereksiz, karın doyurmayan bir duygu bulunduğunu söyleyenler de olur.
Türk Dil Kurumu (TDK); sevgiyi, “insanı bir şeye yada bir hiç kimseye karşı yakın ilgi ve bağlılık göstermeye yönelten duygu” olarak tanımlar. Sevgi üstüne yazdığı kitaplarla malum yazar Dr. Gary Chapman ise sevgiyi bir inanç biçimi olarak tanımlar. Ona nazaran sevgi bir tercihtir ve inanarak sevdiğinizde yaşama oluşturulan kapının anahtarını bulmuş olmuş olursunuz.
Peki kim bu Gary Chapman?
Sevgi üstüne yazdığı “Beş Sevgi Dili”, “Çocuklar İçin Beş Sevgi Dili” şeklinde popüler kitaplarıyla malum Amerikalı yazar, bir dönem evlilik ve ilişkiler üstüne radyo programları da yapmıştır. Uzmanlık alanı ilişki danışmanlığı olan yazar, aslına bakarsak bir dönem Şimal Carolina Calvary Kilisesi’nde destek papaz görevlerinde de bulunmuştur.
Beni benim istediğim şeklinde sev!
Kontrol diyince aklımıza zeka testleri, kişilik testleri şeklinde testler gelse de Gary Chapman bu testlere bir yenisini ilave ederek sevgi dilini anlama testini geliştirdi. Muhtemelen bu yazıyı okuyan birçok kişinin düşüneceği şeklinde Egbert ve Polk(2006) da sevginin bu beş boyuta indirgenemeyeceğini düşündüler. Bu iddalarından o denli emindiler ki bunu 101 öğrenci üstünde kontrol ettiler. Buldukları netice, beklentilerinin aksineydi. Sevgi dilleri ilişki standardını hakkaten artırıyordu. Şimdi Türk toplumunda meydana getirilen benzer çalışmalara bakalım:
Şanel İnce, Egbert ve Polk(2006)’un Chapman’dan esinlenerek geliştirdiği haliyle Beş Sevgi Dili Ölçeği’ni Türkçeye uyarlamak ve bu beş sevgi dilini sosyo demografik değişkenlere nazaran incelemek için 459 evli şahıs üstünde bir araştırma yapmış oldu. Araştırma sonucunda elde etmiş olduğu veri; ölçeğin Türkçeye uyarlanmış halinin geçerli ve güvenilir olduğuydu. Ek olarak sevgi dilleri sosyo demografik değişkenlere (eğitim, yaş, cinsiyet şeklinde) nazaran de değişmiyordu.
Yazar, baskın sevgi dilinin önemini şöyleki açıklıyor; bu sevgi diliyle partnerinizin sevgi deposunu doldurabilisiniz. Partnerinizin sevgi deposunu doldurarak da ilişkinizin standardını artırabilirsiniz. Partnerinizin sevgi dilini öğrenmek için testin İngilizce versiyonuna buradaki linkten ulaşabiirsiniz. Türkçe versiyonuna ise buradaki linkten ulaşabilirsiniz.
Yazara nazaran bu sevgi dillerinden hepsine aslına bakarsak değişik oranlarda sahibiz fakat oranı daha yüksek çıkan dil ise bizim aslolan sevgi dilimizdir. Onaylayıcı Kelimeler: Beni övmen öyleki fazlaca hoşuma gidiyor ki!
Partnerinizin cesaretlendirici, pozitif ve onaylayıcı sözleri ve size yapmış olduğu iltifatlar sizi her şeyden fazlaca mutlu ediyorsa sevgi diliniz “onaylayıcı kelimeler” olabilir.
Onaylayıcı dili bu olan kişilerin partnerleri bu dilin bilincinde değilse ve bu dili azca kullanıyorlarsa bu kişiler partnerleri hakkında şöyleki düşünebilirler : “Hiçbir şeyi beğenmiyor”, “Bir şeyi de beğen be adam/kadın!”
Kaliteli Vakit: Benimle asla zaman geçirmiyorsun!
Partneriniz, size tüm dikkatini verdiğinde ve sizinle anlamlı sohbetler yaptığında onun size hakkaten kıymet verdiğini düşünüyorsanız sevgi diliniz “kaliteli süre” olabilir. Sizin aslolan istediğiniz şey o kişinin gözlerinizin içine bakarak hiçbir şey yapmadan sizi dinlemesi.
Sevgi dili “kaliteli süre” olan ve partnerleri bunun bilincinde olmayan kişiler sık sık şu şekilde yakınırlar : “Devamlı oyun oynuyor, benimle asla zaman geçirmiyor.”, “Devamlı tv izliyor, devamlı telefonda; ailecek asla birlikte süre geçiremiyoruz.”
Armağan Almak: Beni düşünsen bana armağan alırsın!
Partneriniz size abartılı hediyeler aldığında daha mutlu hissediyorsanız sevgi diliniz “armağan almak” olabilir. Armağan almak her insanın hoşuna gitse de sizin daha fazlaca hoşunuza gidiyor. Size armağan alınmadığında partnerinizin sevgisinden kuşku ediyorsunuz.
Sevgi dili bu olan kişilerden sık sık şu cümleleri duyarsınız: “Bana asla armağan almıyor!”, “İnsan, sevilmiş olduğu kişiye arada bir armağan almaz mı?”
Hizmet Eylemleri: Benim için hiçbir şey yapmıyorsun!
Partneriniz stresinizi azaltan görevlerde size destek oluyorsa, ihtiyacınız olmadığı halde sizin için işlerinizi hallediyorsa ve bu, size onun sizi ne kadar sevdiğini hissettiriyorsa sevgi diliniz “hizmet eylemleri” olabilir.
Bu sevgi diline haiz kişiler talep etmedikleri halde kendilerine çay, kahve, meyve tabağı getirildiğinde ya da buna benzer hizmetler kendisi için yapıldığında fazlaca mutlu olurlar.
Fizyolojik Temas: Bana sarıldığında öyleki hususi hissediyorum ki kendimi.
Sevginizi iletmenin son yolu olan fizyolojik temas; partnerinize sarılmanızı, elini tutmanızı ve öteki fizyolojik temasları ihtiva eder. Eğer partneriniz bu tarz şeyleri yapmadığında size olan sevgisinin azaldığını, size artık kıymet vermediğini düşünüyorsanız sevgi diliniz bu sevgi dili olabilir.
Sevgi dili fizyolojik temas olan kişilerden bu cümleleri sık sık duyarsnız: “Artık neredeyse bana asla sarılmıyor!”, “Son olarak ne süre elimi tuttuğunu bile hatırlamıyorum!”
Söz mevzusu sevgi dilleri bu yazıda partnerler üstünden verilmiş olsa da teorinin orjinalinde aslına bakarsak aile fertleri için de kullanılabileceği söylenir. Mesela annenizin sevgi dilinin fizyolojik temas bulunduğunu keşfettiğinizde ona sarılmanızın ona armağan almaktan daha mühim bulunduğunu fark edersiniz.
Not: Sevgi dillerinin burada anlatılan beş taneyle sınırı olan bulunduğunu söylemiyoruz fakat sevgiyi ifade etmede bu yolların daha sık kullanıldığını ve aslına bakarsak bunların herkeste bulunduğunu söylüyoruz. Bunlar herkeste bulunsa da söz mevzusu teoriye nazaran her kişide bu sevgi dillerinden biri daha ağır basacaktır.
Kaynaklar: 5 Love Languages, Psychology Today, Beş Sevgi Dili – Gary Chapman, Doğu Akdeniz Üniversitesi Öğretim ve Araştırma Enstitüsü,
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